[INFRAHELP-2529] feat: add exclude-commands

[ajaxbits]

Adds a exclude-commands input to allow for user flexibility in what "tasks" are exported by the tool.

Users have a need to run certain commands only in certain GHA workflows/environments, but not in others. This enables them to do that.

exclude-commands

The exclude-commands input is inspired by docker/build-push-action’s tags input.

You can provide exclude-commands as either:

• A single string, which applies globally to all projects.
• A multi-line string of key-value pairs, allowing per-project exclusions.
• Or both! Global excludes can easily intermingle with project-level excludes.

Global Excludes

If you pass a single string, that command will be excluded from every project. For example:

exclude-commands: "test"

This prevents any test command from being exported across all projects in the repo.

Per-Project Excludes

To exclude a command from a specific project, use project= and command=. For example:

exclude-commands: |
  project=my-package-1,command=test
  project=my-package-2,command=lint
  project=my-package-1,command=install

This configuration excludes:

• The test and install commands for my-package-1
• The lint command for my-package-2

Other changes

• All dependabot changes are wrapped up and merged
• Due to package upgrades, the eslint config was moved as per guidance to the .cjs format.
• Unused code paths were deleted.

Tip

There's a lot going on here, so I recommend going commit-by-commit.

[BrandonLWhite]

Looks good to me. Thanks for the dependency updates too!
Please update the README either in this PR or a follow-up.