Use in-process language server

[aslakhellesoy]

🤔 What's changed?

The language server is instantiated in the VSCode extension

⚡️ What's your motivation?

See cucumber/language-server#65

🏷️ What kind of change is this?

• 🏦 Refactoring/debt/DX (improvement to code design, tooling, documentation etc. without changing behaviour)

♻️ Anything particular you want feedback on?

Can anyone see any problems with this approach?

📋 Checklist:

• I agree to respect and uphold the Cucumber Community Code of Conduct
• I've changed the behaviour of the code
  • I have added/updated tests to cover my changes.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
  • I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• Users should know about my change
  • I have added an entry to the "Unreleased" section of the CHANGELOG, linking to this pull request.