build: add `--shared-hdr-histogram` configure flag #2125

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 33s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	26m 36s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	37m 30s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	32m 13s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	21m 51s
	1h 59m 43s

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