Run rust integration tests in parallel

[fresh-borzoni]

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Description

LazyLock shared cluster, unique names per test, proper cleanup, remove RUST_TEST_THREADS=1.

I will handle this as part of SASL/PLAIN issue as I need shared cluster with different listeners anyway for it:
#367

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• I'm willing to submit a PR!