fix(core): split node flags to be more minimalistic in walltime #651

Job	Run time
check	1m 13s
List examples	6s
with-typescript-esm on Node 18	3m 34s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 18	1m 53s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 20.5.1	1m 56s
with-javascript-esm on Node 18	3m 9s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 20.5.1	3m 19s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 18	3m 24s
with-javascript-esm on Node 20.5.1	2m 6s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 20.5.1	2m 47s
with-typescript-esm on Node 20.5.1	2m 18s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 18	2m 4s
	27m 49s

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